How we planned our perfect, intentional, stress-free micro wedding in Santa Barbara with just 15 of our closest family and friends, and a huge surprise for my husband at the end of the day.

If there’s one thing I want to be guaranteed on my wedding day, it is for my peace to be protected throughout the entire day and for my morning to be calm and collective. I am proud to say that all the above were checked off and here are 5 ways you can create a calm and peaceful wedding morning too.

Celebrated my fiance’s sister over the weekend with a Cabo-inspired bridal shower, hosted in the backyard of a beautiful Los Angeles home. From the tablescape to the landscape, this tropical bridal shower was filled with good vibes, unlimited tacos and mimosas, and the most delicious dessert table. Best of all, this event was all done by our friends!

Let the wedding planning begin, but first, let’s find a few wedding dress options specifically by an AAPI designer. I’ve created a list based on recommendations I received from my Instagram community for AAPI bridal designers, in case anyone else is looking too.