Lessons from My Pregnancy
We’re at the last week of my second trimester and it’s amazing how time can go by so slowly and so fast, all at once. With the third trimester just around the corner, I wanted to share some things I’ve learned through pregnancy (so far). I’m sure I’ll have more to add to this once Baby Sole is here, and third trimester wraps up, and postpartum begins. After all, every week honestly teaches me something new or at least provides an alternative perspective that I didn’t think about before.
Things pregnancy has taught me so far:
to celebrate the small wins in life like those rare nights when I do get to sleep for 5 hours straight without having to get up to pee
that our bodies are truly amazing because they know exactly what to do without our guidance
who cares and shows up for you
that you are not alone (even though it may feel like it at times) but there is a community out there with open arms who are ready to help (as long as you’re willing to ask for it)
that boundaries are more important than ever because your motherly instincts to protect your baby will kick in
to take incoming, unsolicited advice with a nod and smile but know that you don’t have to utilize any of it unless you want
to do what is best for you and your baby regardless of what everyone around you may say or think (trust your guts!)
you don’t need every single latest thing for your baby. sometimes the bare minimum is enough
you cannot control much during pregnancy, especially those pregnancy symptoms so do what you can but don’t stress over every little thing
rest is necessary and your body will tell you when you need to take breaks, but feel free to take advantage of those days when you do have the energy to get shit done
every pregnancy is different and therefore, you cannot judge or comment on anyone’s experience (note: please make sure to ask before you decide to trauma dump on someone aka traumatic birth stories)
your baby is stronger than you think and even if you feel like complete shit, know that your baby is most likely doing fine and doesn’t feel any of it
having a supportive partner truly is everything
